A Girl’s Friends

When a girl’s boy friend or the liquor gets her into shit, there is only one person who will stand by her testimony, and will not judge her for what she has done, her Best Friend. The Best Friend has been with her, through her highs and her lows, knows and loves both, the worst and the best in her.  She loves her just the way she is!

My BF shouts on me when I have had the nerve to do something absolutely stupid and absurd, but somehow her shouting on me does not sound as bad as my parents shouting on me, and she makes more sense anyway..!!

But your best girl friend can’t always be there. Let’s face it…sometimes she’s been in utter shit too….that is when you are the “enlightened” one….! That is why a girl always needs a couple of other “essential” friends too…! Here is a list of some girl friends that I feel should always be there on every girl’s close friends list…!

The Virtuous Friend

This is the god fearing friend, who believes that it was God who made the Big bang happen and that god will fix everything when the time is right! She always sees the good side of everyone.

This is an essential friend, because when you loose your faith in the world, your Virtuous friend is the one who comes to your rescue by making you believe in the power of the almighty again and that feel things will get fixed magically when the time is right…!

The Crazy Friend

Contrary to the one above, this is the absolutely crazy, wild, out going……..(etc etc) friend who is always ready to try something new…! You will hear the most outrageous things from her. She is an extrovert with a love for simple and yet not so simple things. She has wild and sometimes notorious fantasies. She is open minded person who believes that the world is a huge party place and does not restrict her thinking to the paradigms of the society. She will not pay much attention to the silly upsetting things around her as long as her world is not being disrupted.

This is the friend to turn to, on a lonely day when you are low, and want to have a little fun. The crazy friend will teach you how to love life in every breath that you take!

The Controversy Girl Friend

She is the friend who always seems to be dealing with some kind of mishappenings either due to other bitchy girls or some sort of misunderstandings. She keeps her dignity in dealing with these problems. The controversies have made her smart and confident. She does not hesitate to speak he mind.

The Controversy Girl teaches us how to stand up for ourselves and that we shouldn’t let others take us for granted!

The Funny Friend

This one is my favourite! She will make the most serious of the things look so hilarious. Funny expressions and theories are her trademark nature. She too looks at things in a positive way. She is fierce and witty and her one liners’ can shut any one up..!

For a dose of good laughter, this is the friend to turn to. She teaches you how to appreciate simple things in life and adds humour to ones life. When you meet some annoying people who just refuse to stop with their annoying tattle tales, a few lessons can be taken from your funny friend, to make them shut up without being too rude…!

The Gossip Girl Friend

This is the friend buzzing with the latest gossip in town, or in college or any where! She is like the broadcast media!

Let’s face it, women and gossip are like Blackberry and the Blackberry Messenger..! Though not to be trusted with intimate details of your life, this friend is nevertheless is fun to hang around with, especially when you have had a fight with someone or you have just been treated like crap, this is the friend that will help you take out all your frustrations..!

The Older Friend

This is the friend who is just a few years older to you and is just as fabulous. She has passed out college, is gorgeous, has a great job and is dating or engaged/married to the man of her dreams…!

The older friend gives you advice on things. Tells you how to deal with parents when there is a fight due to generation gaps. She will not be present always, but will be there, just when you need her..!

The Cool Mom Friend

Lastly, this is an “Aunty” friend, who seems to be way too cooler than your own mom…! She is young at heart, wears pretty clothes and bakes great cakes…!

She will explain you things that your parents try to, from your own point of view! Some how listening just one of her lectures makes more sense than all of your parents’ lectures…! But then again, this is not the friend you tell EVERY THING…!

So that was my list of a few essential ‘girl” friends on my list. Offcourse, there are other friends too, but I have a friend from each of the categories mentioned above, and I can’t even begin to imagine just how much of a role they play in my life..!

P.S. My best friend is a combination of all of the above friends with an exception to, offcourse the “Cool Mom” friend…! :P